Life is like riding a boat in the midst of low and high tides. Learn to enjoy the moments and everyone around you when you are blessed with low tides. Just forget your past injuries, people who would have hurt you, or even the cases where you would have hurt people. Go with the flow and perform your best. Learn to be happy all time.
However, such an easy life does not last long. and it shouldn't as what's the fun then! How would you get to know more about yourself?
Now, when there are tough times, people around you seem not to care enough. you feel lonely and stuck. I have seen many people breaking into such situations. Most of them avoid discussing the matter, and a few of them start crying while discussing it. One of my friend's eyes is filled with anger while she discusses her issues. You could be feeling low. You could be around people who are making you feel low. It's solely your attitude on how you handle the situation.
You have the below options.
1. Regression: Forget what happened and start all over. but, by doing this you carry certain grudges inside you that may harm you in the future. it usually turns into anger.
2. Depression: You feel lonely. You keep imagining the situations in your head in an infinite loop. you try finding people to talk to. you start crying more often.
3. Aggression: You take on the responsibility of the situation on your shoulders and do something to correct it.
Know what you are doing, know what you should be doing and just go do it.
Be on your toes.
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