to Ignore is being Strong

Most of the time we find ourselves stuck in a feeling where we are not able to adjust with something and repeatedly think of same. Our thinking attitude at such times becomes like a hurricane. we think the same, analyze the same and are caught in same.


These are instances, where you have to ignore a matter in order to have a peaceful heart and mind. Keeping little things in mind and making them grudge only puts you in loss. Such hurt feelings do not let one move ahead. If you want to achieve the heights, you will have to empty them from your heart.

Many of these are not in your area of influence, but some are. For e.g. if price hike or some government action or say if weather condition is what's bothering , ignorance is the only viable option. right?


However, in situations where the matter is in your area of influence, e.g. related to family or friends, try being action oriented rather than being problem oriented. Obviously, you can't solve things sitting at home and doing brain storming. You have to be a part to the problem to find its solution. Even so, while you are in the battleground, you cannot solve the issue unless you ignore the problem and give importance to people involved.


Continuously thinking about one thing, that could have been easily ignored is just stupidity.


Either ignore the thing completely or take some action against it.


To ignore is being Strong.
To ignore and let it not affect you is being Stronger.
To be a part of it and yet ignore is being Strongest.



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EDIT
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Now my belief is
"To ignore is being strong,
To let it not affect you is being stronger,
To be a part of it and yet let it not affect you is being strongest and
To get paranoid about it and change things till perfection is being bravest"