Akirathaghana - Ungrateful Ones

- the ones who do not know the art of receiving.


Whatever we are, what so ever we have, all the experiences good or bad we have and all beautiful scenic that we cherish is all given by god. He is the creator and destroyer of not just all bodies but also of whole nature.


However, all this does not come for free. you are asked to appreciate it. God asks us to chant his name , (in whatever form we do) to remember that he is the giver and thank him for all.


We do not do any favor by remembering him.This is where most of the devotees get stuck. You chant him and then start thinking that it's you who're doing god a favor. How foolish are we?


Relation with the almighty is a spiritual thing. There may be some who may not connect to it.


However, we all share same kind of relation with our parents. They feed us, take care of our needs and interests. They are always there for us. We think that all they did and are still doing is their duty, and that they would never ask anything in return of it.
That's not true!


They need us back when we are settled, and they want us to be with them, share our joyous moments with them. Sadly, this is the time when we realize that there is a generation gap between us, and they cannot understand us...

To some extent, this can be true. Nevertheless, this is the time we give back. Be with them. Either make them understand, or you understand them.


If you can't even make your parents happy, you are not worth this life.


dedicated to that pure almighty and to our lovely parents:

ਤੂ ਸਮਰਥੁ ਵਡਾ ਮੇਰੀ ਮਤਿ ਥੋਰੀ ਰਾਮ ॥
You are great and all-powerful; my understanding is so inadequate, O Lord.

ਪਾਲਹਿ ਅਕਿਰਤਘਨਾ ਪੂਰਨ ਦ੍ਰਿਸਟਿ ਤੇਰੀ ਰਾਮ ॥
You cherish even the ungrateful ones; Your Glance of Grace is perfect, Lord.

lets Jump Now!

What do you do to see a pit in the road?


for me...
Thanks to all who created pits on my road.
Thanks to all who dint let me walk by side.
I am learning to jump now.


I usually used to walk by side and keep eyes on destiny. Same was the attitude towards all tidbit problems in daily routine. Simply ignore and stay chill !


Until recently, when I realized that I am missing the fun of facing these tidbit problems. I owe to all who created pits on my road. I owe to all who dint let me walk from sides and dragged me in. I am finally learning to jump now !!!


Journey is now more adventurous and so is the happiness achieved on crossing each pit.

Life is like a video game. Think of Temple Run or Mario. How these games would have been if there existed plain way without pits! boring huh...Exploring those landscapes, fighting with enemies, solving puzzles, collecting powers, add fun to the game... so is with the life.


It's not about
"chalte chalte kat jaye raste zindagi yuhi chalte rahe meaning"

means wishing that life is smoothly passed walking on roads"


rather it's
"Aye bhai zaraa daikh ke chalo aage hi nahi peechhe bhi"

means don't just keep a watch on your way ahead but also on a way just crossed.



Enjoy!!
most important motto of life :)

to Ignore is being Strong

Most of the time we find ourselves stuck in a feeling where we are not able to adjust with something and repeatedly think of same. Our thinking attitude at such times becomes like a hurricane. we think the same, analyze the same and are caught in same.


These are instances, where you have to ignore a matter in order to have a peaceful heart and mind. Keeping little things in mind and making them grudge only puts you in loss. Such hurt feelings do not let one move ahead. If you want to achieve the heights, you will have to empty them from your heart.

Many of these are not in your area of influence, but some are. For e.g. if price hike or some government action or say if weather condition is what's bothering , ignorance is the only viable option. right?


However, in situations where the matter is in your area of influence, e.g. related to family or friends, try being action oriented rather than being problem oriented. Obviously, you can't solve things sitting at home and doing brain storming. You have to be a part to the problem to find its solution. Even so, while you are in the battleground, you cannot solve the issue unless you ignore the problem and give importance to people involved.


Continuously thinking about one thing, that could have been easily ignored is just stupidity.


Either ignore the thing completely or take some action against it.


To ignore is being Strong.
To ignore and let it not affect you is being Stronger.
To be a part of it and yet ignore is being Strongest.



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EDIT
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Now my belief is
"To ignore is being strong,
To let it not affect you is being stronger,
To be a part of it and yet let it not affect you is being strongest and
To get paranoid about it and change things till perfection is being bravest"